Dear Abby: Couple’s monthly budget arguments aren’t going anywhere. Time for some professional help

Dear Abby is written by Abigail Van Buren, also known as Jeanne Phillips, and was founded by her mother, Pauline Phillips.

Asking Eric: I’m hurt that some of my family plans to skip my destination 40th birthday bash

Dear Loved: Approach with “I” statements: this is what I was hoping, this is what I’m seeing, this is how I feel, this is what I would like. It’s possible that your family is seeing this as a ...